Monday, November 15, 2021

Em's 24 in 24.

This photo tells a great story. 



Here is Emily crossing the finish line after running 24 miles in 24 hours. Nov. 13, 2021, 3:12pm est. 

Now, let's backup a bit so I can explain.



In early 2020, when the pandemic hit and realities for nonprofits to fundraise changed, Emily came up with a unique idea to create her own fundraiser. Since the Susan G. Komen foundation was not going to host its annual Race for the Cure in Birmingham, in September of 2020, Emily created Em’s 24 in 24. For her fundraiser, Emily ran 24 miles over the course of 24 hours while seeking donations to support Komen. One mile per hour was run by Emily, typically with a host of her friends, near the UGA campus. This money will be designated to the Treatment Assistance Program in Alabama to benefit those living in rural communities who cannot travel for their care.

Last year, Em raised more than $13,000.  More from last year: 

The Red and Black article (Oct 11, 2020) https://bit.ly/34FK262

Em’s 24 in 24 Virtual Check Presentation to Komen (Dec. 17, 2020) https://bit.ly/3wO2aHV

Facebook post (Dec 17, 2020) https://bit.ly/3wTRDtD




This year, although most of her friends had already graduated, Emily decided to do the fundraiser again near campus. Running the same route, several other friends took shifts running with her during the 24 hours. As of this writing, she has raised more than $15,000 and plans for this money again go to the same UAB organization. 

If you are interested in supporting Emily's efforts, she is using her Venmo (@Emily-Nomberg) to collect the donations before sending them to Komen.  Alternatively, you can donate directing through the Facebook fundraising page: https://bit.ly/3cbM4OW.  She is accepting donations through Friday, Nov. 19th. 




While most of you know who personal this run is for Emily and our family, the support from so many friends and family means the world to us. Thank you to everyone who donated, raised funds, shared the posts, and encouraged Emily along the way. Cannot wait to see what next year's event looks like! 

“You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to desist from it (2:21).” 
Pirkei Avot

Bernard 

Wednesday, November 3, 2021

Why Do We Invest So Much Time Rooting for Sports Teams?

Legit question, especially in the south where sports play such an important part of culture. Competition is inherent to sports. Competition brings out emotions - good and bad. Competing is a way of life for most. Win or lose. Kill or be killed, so to speak. It is not that simple though. Much more goes into rooting for our beloved sports teams. Did you hear the Braves are World Series Champs?  😎

Most kids grew up playing sports of some kind. Being part of a team meant belonging to a group. Wearing the team ball cap or jersey in public showed others which team you belonged to. For many, it also gave a sense of identity and pride. Boosted self-esteem and confidence.  Memories are made during the formative years. Good or bad, these memories stick with us for a lifetime. 

Often we began fandom based on the teams our parents or older siblings rooted for. Maybe the team colors or a cool mascot got our attention. Proximity to our home might have been a factor. Also, watching on television or listening on the radio played a big part of locking in our early sports allegiances.  Whatever the influence, these teams or players became ours during  childhood and likely remained for life. 

My first sports team I played on was the Yankees when I was six years old. Dad was born in the Bronx so he rooted for the New York Yankees. My early allegiance was split between the Yankees (American League) and the Atlanta Braves (National League). I rooted for Thurman Munson and Ron Guidry on the Yankees and Hammerin’ Hank with the Braves. I also remember watching wide receiver John Stallworth play for the Pittsburgh Steelers. He was from Huntsville, AL  and played in college at Alabama A&M. More importantly, I thought he was smoothest player and his team wore the best colors. I rooted for the Steelers because of him. Of course I also rooted for the Alabama Crimson Tide.  My parents graduated from there, my uncle played for The Bear and my aunt was Miss Alabama. Also, a local high school quarterback, Steadman Shealy, was the Tide's starting qb when I was 10-11 years old. 

(Front row. 4th from left with hat perched on top of my blonde hair.  Doug Tew Park. Confederate League, City of Dothan. Yankees. Age 6. 1974.)

When I was 10-11 years old, I played for Solomon Motors in the Dixie Youth League. We wore blue and orange (ugh), and  my buddies played on my team. We competed against our other friends in Ward Four of the  Dothan (AL) City Youth League. I had success those years, making the All-Star teams. I wore my Solomon cap everywhere! Those years still hold many fond memories for me. 



(Both photos. Front row, second from left. Thankfully I found contact lens by age 11. Westgate Park. Dixie Youth League, City of Dothan. Solomon Motors. Ages 10-11. 1978-1979.)

However, eventually we all grow up and some lose interest in sports. Not for others. Their fandom intensifies as they grow older. Some become fanatics. (Watch the movie The Fan with Robert De Niro and Wesley Snipes?) So why do we continue to root for sports teams beyond childhood? 

Much like during our childhood, I suspect that fandom connects us to other like-minded people, which fulfills our need for belonging. This is why are tickets so hard to come by for the best games. Prices for the World Series were through the roof! Tailgating is the place to be at many games. House parties are a tradition for others. We want to be there in person to witness the action with our closest friends, family and thousands of others. Creating memories is so important from these experiences. Nobody wants to suffer the fear of missing out. 

Look at the crazed fan bases in the Southeastern Conference. Many fans of the bigger programs are often called sidewalk alums - they root for the team but never attended to the school. Why is that? It’s not just for the entertainment.  Why root for a college football team even though they never attended a single class inside the huge buildings on the quad where pre-game tailgating and game watching goes on every Saturday in the fall? It is because they are fans and have a sense of ownership. They somehow believe they help the team the harder they root for the program. They will fight you if you criticize their team, players or coach. They will also scream to get rid of the coach if the team stinks. Why do you think sports radio call-in shows have been so popular or so long? Just ask Paul Finebaum.  


Why is rooting for the team so important? Because it is fun. Because it impacts us emotionally - good and bad. If your team wins all the time there are psychological advantages - emotions run high.  Fans get a sense of winning when the team wins. Many celebrate “our win” even though they never step foot on the field of play. Look at the yard and house decorations that stay in place all year. I would imagine the inverse is true as well. When the team stinks morale and emotions run afoul, but they are doing it with others who root for the same team.  Sometimes, however, there are extreme situations. 

One such real world example happened many years ago when the Crimson Tide lost to a rival SEC team and things did not go so well for one of my former clients. His son made the mistake of asking to borrow the family vehicle around the same time ran out on the Tide. Let’s just say that other influences were at play here and the father was charged with attempted murder after he discharged his firearm as part of his response to the son’s request.  Sheesh. True story. Sports Illustrated  ran a blurb on it. Like I said, extreme example. 

Regardless of your team, we all experience the emotions of winning and losing. We commiserate the losses and celebrate the wins. So long as you root for my teams, I will be right there with you! 

Bernard  

I have been a Braves fan long as I have known about the game of baseball.

Baseball has always been my favorite sport to play and to watch. Growing up in Dothan, AL, Atlanta was the closest MLB team and Hank Aaron was the best player. We traveled to Atlanta for many games over the years to watch the Braves in the old Fulton County Stadium, and then later at the Ted. Watching on WTBS and listening to Ernie, Sr, Pete and Skip define my childhood fandom. Murphy, Niekro, Pocoroba, Garr, Hubbard, Royster and Benedict were my guys.

                                                           1914. 1957. 1995.

As a child, I rooted for them through the terrible teams of the ‘70s and ‘80s, with one memorable season in 1982 (13 straight wins to start the season!). Then miracles (and great mgmt. decisions) happened, as the run of World Series appearances began in 1991 (Worst to First!), and continued to 1992 (Sid Slid!), 1995 (Champs!), 1996 (Leyritz, ugh) and 1999 (Chad Curtis, ugh). Lemke, Justice, Maddux, Smoltz, Chipper, Glavine, Cox, Gant, ... so many great players.

Maybe I was too naive in thinking the World Series during the ‘00s would be pretty automatic since they made it five times in the ‘90s. During these past two decades, the Braves made the Playoffs many times but also suffered early exits every season. This included three times in the past eight seasons to the dreaded LA Dodgers.
 


Then this year happened.


During the first half of the season there was no reason to think this team would be making a Playoffs run. Sporting a losing record until game 111, this team was disappointing. Then gas to the fire. On July 10th disaster struck. Games #88 vs. the Marlins. The most dynamic player in MLB, Ronald Acuna Jr., suffered a season ending knee injury. Just awful for him and for Braves fans. Nothing has been easy for this team. So many stars, including reigning NL MVP Freddie, and promising young players on the roster. How did this team keep moving forward?

                                                                 Minter, Smith. Jackson

Well, this team IS different. Very different. The 2021 season has been nothing short of amazing. Braves GM Alex Anthopoulos has pulled the right strings. Many key injuries lead to roster turnover. The new players (Eddie, Joc, Soler) have contributed mightily as the Braves blazed a trail during the second half of the season. On September 30th against the Phillies, they locked up their fourth straight NL East crown and were heading back to the Playoffs.

                                                                Wright. Duvall. Riley.

What about those Playoffs Demons? Not this year! They erased the Brewers and Dodgers on their way back to the World Series after a 22 year absence. It’s been 26 years their last title. Half my lifetime ago. The AL pennant went to the Houston Astros, a formidable team. A very, very good team. Three times in the World Series during the past five seasons. 2017 Champs*. (Ehem.)

                                                               Albies. Swanson. Fried.

Now we have reached Game 6 of the World Series against Houston. The Braves have two games to win one for their first World Series title since 1995. Which Brave will be the hero tonight? Who will etch their name in the lore of Braves history and forever be in the hearts of Braves Nation?

                                                               D’Arnaud. Matzek. Martin.

I can feel it. We can feel it. This is the year. Enjoy it Braves fans. It’s our turn! 2021.

#ChopOn #ForTheA #GoBraves